My Hero

Ah, the hero *swoon* Okay, you’re right; I wouldn’t swoon, I’d leer. I can’t help it. It’s a prerequisite for dirty old ladydom. However, I do love a good hero. I’m going to list what I think a hero is and let y’all haggle over whether you agree or not.

First and foremost, a hero is the main love interest of the heroine of a story. I’m not talking every day heroes (police officers, fire fighters, soldiers, etc.) although the every day hero can make a great love interest in a romance book. He’s the character we want the heroine to end up with. How they get there is the best part of the story as far as I’m concerned.

I prefer a hero who has issues; it makes him seem more real, even if he’s a paranormal creature. His past experiences are what makes the story rich and colorful. Or he could be an anti-hero; not quite good, but not entirely bad either. Or, he could be bad and redeem himself. The possibilities are endless!

Then there’s how he treats the heroine. My sister, mother, aunt, and I discussed this not long ago. We all adore Alpha males who are considered assholes by everyone else, but who’re completely wrapped around their woman’s finger. When I read a book and the hero is this big, bad boogeyman with everyone except the heroine, it makes my heart go all mushy. It’s because he’s still a bad ass, but once his woman is in range, he’s putty in her hands.

These characteristics are what make a great hero for me. He’s a man who can be from any walk of life with a dark, or traumatic past that gives him texture as a character. He’s strong and powerful, but when it comes to the heroine, he’s a teddy bear.

What do you think?


About danicaavet

Danica Avet lives and writes in the wilds of South Louisiana. Unmarried with no children, she's the proud pet of two cats and a dog. With a BA in History, she decided there were enough fry cooks in the world and tried her hand at writing. Danica loves losing herself in the antics of her characters and blushes more often than not at the things they do. She likes to define her work as paranormal romance with a touch of Cajun spice, but most times her characters turn the notch up to "five-alarm fire"!
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9 Responses to My Hero

  1. Lynn Rush says:

    You and I are on the same page about the hero for the most part, Danica!


  2. Daisy Harris says:

    LOVE the hero who’s all skeery around everyone but the heroine. LOVE! Zsadist much?

    Ah, be still my heart. I’ll have to write a guy like that soon. I wonder if it would work in a gay romance…hmmmm…


    • danicaavet says:

      Seriously, Zsadist and Revhenge are two of my favorite heroes because their reputations and the way they love their women. *swoon* Love it!

      Ooh! It totally could, Daisy! I’ll be waiting to see one of those stories pop up in my inbox any day now ๐Ÿ˜‰


  3. Good post, Danica. I’m all for the big bad boy but like you said, I like him to love his woman no matter what. Putty, I’m not so sure about! May get boring if he’s too malleable. LOL!


    • danicaavet says:

      Well, okay, putty might be a bit much. But you get the idea. Daisy hit the nail on the head, Zsadist is one of my favorite heroes because he’s so flipping scary to everyone except Bella. Love it!


  4. jeff7salter says:

    Somewhat like Jillian’s view, I think the hero should not be putty.
    And, in my view, not a ‘teddy bear’ either. But: loving, tender, supportive — yes.


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