So Many, So Soon

This week we are asked to name those who have ‘gone too soon’, those who left the world before they could have contributed so much more.

I thought politically and John Fitzgerald Kennedy was on my list. Jeff named him yesterday. The more I hear of his speeches and many of his plans, the more impressed with I am with them.

Certainly the Reverend Marin Luther King, Jr. could have helped the country accomplish so much more in understanding and cooperation. I wish everyone would listen, actually listen, to the words he left behind and acted in their spirit.

I thought strongly about doing the entire post on Michael Collins, the man of author whom Tim Pat Coogan named his biography, “The Man Who Made Ireland”. Had he not been assassinated at the age of 31, I believe that Ireland would have been stronger through the latest decades, less apt to roller-coastering between boom and bust. He could have kept Eamon DeValera in check. Collins would not have amassed a personal fortune while the terrible poverty that caused so much physical suffering and demoralization for much of Ireland’s people continued.

But off my soapbox. There were great artists who died young left us with loss: Vincent Van Gogh, Rafael and Caravaggio, among several classical artists. (Unfamiliar with the name ‘Caravaggio”? You have probably seen his most famous religious paintings, “Thomas the Doubter” and “St.Jerome”.)Caravaggio 1 ThomasCaravaggio 2 St Jerome

Looking at famous literary figures in the past, there were many who died young who come to mind: Jane Austen, Christopher Marlowe, Oscar Wilde, Lord Byron, Percy Shelley and John Keats. (My mother told me that she would have named me “Keat” had I been a boy. She really had it out for me, didn’t she?)

Music lost many greats too soon: Wolfgang Mozart, Franz Shubert, Frederic Chopin and I have to add, Glenn Miller. Everyone has heard his music; all modern musicians lost a major influence. I’ll bet most young adults, even though they can’t tell you the names of the songs, who wrote or performed them, have heard “In the Mood”:, plus probably Miller’s “String of Pearls” and “Moonlight Serenade”.

So find his grandness debatable, but I will add Mario Lanza.  Alfred Arnold Cocozza knew the sacrifices his mother, (nee Maria Lanza), made all of his life to cultivate his talent and of her work to afford voice coaches for him, so he chose a male version of her name to use professionally.

Mario not only sang in grand operas, but he recorded many arias and performed in operettas, which introduced many to the musical forms and classical works. The movies he made were highly watchable, if sometimes a little simple. (Why were they surprised when the deaf girl he loved got depressed when they took her to see him perform?) The movies were always full of romance and music. They were often filled with lovely locations and brilliant costuming, and not only when he was onstage. In one early post I mentioned the cluster of diamonds that Joan Fontaine wore on her hip in one of his films, “Serenade“. It was the only jewelry that adorned her solid black dress and the result was stunning! Although I saw the movie forty years ago, I will never forget the impact it had on me.Joan Fonatine(I actually found a picture! Too bad you can’t get the impact of it from this. And yes, that is Vincent Price to the left.)

You can still often hear Mario’s religious and Christmas song renditions played during the holiday season in stores and on the radio. Speaking of Franz Shubert, here is a link to Mario singing his “Ave Maria”

He died after being pushed by his studios into a severe weight-loss program; his heart could not take the stress. It was tragic.
We lost very many who could have continued to mold the world for the better, politically or as they added to its joy and beauty.


About Tonette Joyce

Tonette was a once-fledgling lyricists-bookkeeper, turned cook/baker/restaurateur and is now exploring different writing venues,(with a stage play recently completed). She has had poetry and nonfiction articles published in the last few years. Tonette has been married to her only serious boyfriend for more than thirty years and she is, as one person described her, family-oriented almost to a fault. Never mind how others have described her, she is,(shall we say), a sometime traditionalist of eclectic tastes.She has another blog : "Tonette Joyce:Food,Friends,Family" here at WordPress.She and guests share tips and recipes for easy entertaining and helps people to be ready for almost anything.
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7 Responses to So Many, So Soon

  1. jeff7salter says:

    Many, many excellent selections in your list today.
    I certainly agree with MLK Jr. — and believe he would be horrified at how divided our nation has become after all the sacrifices he made to help achieve harmony. I love the Big Band Swing sound of Glen Miller… and what a shame that he apparently went down in the English Channel. Some say his plane was shot down, while others say it was just one of those many aircraft accidents or incidents of terrible weather in that region. But certainly his music lives on.
    Since you mentioned several movie stars, I guess I’d add the name Carole Lombard to the list.


    • Lovely girl, to be sure. I have a LOT of favorite ‘old’ actors and singers, but I am just not sure how much of an impact many of them had/would have had had they been with us longer.
      I only meant to mention the cluster of diamonds! Fortunately, Vincent and Joan lived long lives. As much as I have enjoyed many of Joan Fontaine’s movies, (and those of her sister, Olivia DeHavilland), I would have to say that trly Vincent Price would have been the real loss of influence in the movies, especially horror films. He added a sophisticated element to them, unseen in most. He also added an extra edge in ‘normal’ dramas, such as “Dragonwick”.

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  2. Patricia Kiyono says:

    Quite a comprehensive list! I’ve enjoyed listening to (and watching) Mario Lanza. Now you’ve got me curious. I’m going to have to try to avoid reading up on him when I’ve got other work to do.

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    • There are varying accounts of his life, Patty, depending on who you listen to. I never made a study of him, I simply enjoyed his movies, (my mother was NOT a fan of his), and my husband enjoys his Christmas and religious music. I know that his mother kept him from working much at all so that he would not risk harming the voice she was so certain would bring him fame and fortune; history proves her right. He was fond of the ladies and they were fond of him. He and his wife had four children and they enjoyed a very lavish lifestyle…while it lasted.Too lavish, which is why the studio insisted that he quickly lose a lot of weight and it killed him. His wife went into complete grief died of an overdose, probably suicide. His best friend took in his children, who were spoiled, and tried to turn them around. This is where I had heard most of the information on him.I really don’t know how the kids turned out.
      I just know that he made a big impact on many, inspired quite a few careers and would have been recording and making movies for many more years. What a shame that excess on his part and over-zealousness and fear of losing female fans on the part of his manager and movie-makers killed him.


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