Living Thru Covid19

One Person’s Story of Surviving the Pandemic

Spotlight on Michael Grigsby’s Powerful Account

By Jeff Salter

Intro

I met Michael several years ago, mainly through his wife Jennifer… who is a fellow author. Along the way I got better acquainted with Michael through his knowledgeable and gracious assistance with a couple of projects I had (within a hobby field we both share).

I dare say every citizen had a close encounter with CoVid-19 — whether it was your own experience or one/some of your friends or loved ones. In my case, that pandemic resulted in the death of my Sunday School teacher and caused the incredible set of severe complications in my new friend, Michael. Somewhat later, I had my own experience: 4 nights (5 days) in the hospital, followed by about three months of slow recovery while on oxygen most of my waking hours. [My own feelings of weakness, isolation, and helplessness during my brief and comparatively minor CoVid experience helped me comprehend SOME of what Michael went through during a condition that was exponentially worse than mine.]

During Michael’s lengthy ordeal, Jennifer kept his friends updated on his developments — most were setbacks, but there were a few positive signals along the way. One of the impressions I had formed from reading those reports was that some of Michael’s medical attendants had basically written him off. For example, there were lengthy stretches of his coma period during which his body was not “turned” — a standard protocol that SHOULD occur every hour!

The seriousness of his lengthy duration on a ventilator is difficult for laymen to comprehend. Here are Michael’s own words: “I was actually sedated (unconscious) while I was actually on the vent, physically attached to it for 74 days. It took almost two weeks beyond that before I was fully off of it, but I was only semi-awake during that time. Usually, people are on the vent for 5-7 days, and they come off or die; the max usually is 21 days.” Michael’s body weight went from 220 to 94 pounds during this ordeal.

When I learned Michael was “writing-up” his incredible story of survival, I knew I’d want to read it… as painful as I realized it would be. He published it in early March 2023 while he was still struggling to recover from the devastating effects of the disease (and treatments).

My Review

What most impresses me about this harrowing account is the faith and strength of Michael – amid all the fear and uncertainty and helplessness of his ordeal – and the tenacious, sacrificial support from Jennifer throughout the lengthy experience. Jennifer repeatedly ran into medical brick walls, at times being elbowed out of the loop… and existed in a near-constant state of exhaustion and frustration.

Michael’s account sets the stage with enough medical/historical information to acquaint the reader with what was involved in that global pandemic of late 2019 and early 2020. Along the way he pauses to explain (in layman’s terms) some of the medical procedures and treatments he was given.

But the heart of this account is the confusion, solitude, helplessness, and loneliness of the patient — kept away from loved ones and (at times) so isolated from even the medical staff that his basic needs went unmet. On the other “end” was Jennifer, struggling to obtain updates, fighting to be informed of the treatment plan, and even having to insist on certain aspects of Michael’s care that seemed to be ignored or overlooked.

I’m no medical maven, but it seems pretty clear to me that a considerable amount of the developments that seemingly nearly killed Michael… were “side effects” of the core illness and his hospital confinement. [One specific example seems to be a horrific infection that resulted from bed sores.]

For some 74 days, Michael was on a ventilator or “under” an induced coma — and it was terrifying to read his account of hazy periods when he wasn’t sure if he was actually experiencing something or merely hallucinating. As Michael mentions frequently in his text, certain phases of this experience are only able to be fully reconstructed through Jennifer’s detailed contemporaneous notes.

This account is stark, powerful, and painful to read — but ultimately uplifting because Michael DID survive and is slowly bouncing back… though not without considerable effort (and stubborn willpower). And if there is ever an award for “Patient’s Spouse of the Year,” it should go to Jennifer… for all she went through during this entire ordeal.

Michael’s Follow-up

After 5 1/2 months in the hospital – including the period from Dec. 6, 2020, till Feb. 21, 2021 on a ventilator and in a drug-induced coma – Michael began his arduous recovery process.

“I was discharged from the hospital in May 2021; at that time, I was unable to walk and was in a wheelchair, and it was questionable if I would ever walk again. I spent from May 2021 to September 2022 in Patient Physical Therapy. I have reached maximum medical improvement according to my Workers Comp. COVID destroyed my health and I continued to struggle every day. Health care and being able to maintain my current level is ongoing. I have enlisted a personal trainer to continue in my recovery. I have lifelong medical issues as well as the possibility of unknown problems in the future since the long-term effects of COVID are unknown. I will never regain full facilities. While I have had some progress, much of how long that will continue is uncertain.”

Blurb

Living through COVID-19 is one person’s story of the traumatic experience and prolonged recovery after contracting COVID-19. Michael’s body was severely ravaged, leaving him with pneumonia, blood clots, pulmonary saddle edema, and a pressure ulcer. The recovery was challenging, with overwhelming emotions and exhaustion. Michael’s story is a testament to survival, determination, love, and faith despite the challenges he faced.

Author Bio

Michael Grigsby is a 52-year-old graduate of Somerset High School, the University of Kentucky, and Eastern Kentucky University, holding degrees in Law Enforcement Technology, Police Administration, Corrections, and Security and Loss Prevention. Michael has spent most of his adult life in public service, beginning in 1993 and ultimately retiring from the Commonwealth of Kentucky in 2018. He and his wife, Jennifer, live in southern Kentucky; his wife is an accomplished author in her own right, having authored several books on Kentucky Genealogy. He enjoys writing, playing chess, photography, and fly fishing.

In November 2020, Michael suffered a work-related exposure to COVID-19 that resulted in Acute Respiratory Distress Syndrome and 74 days on a ventilator in a drug-induced coma combined with a five-month hospital stay. He is still recovering from the effects. Some of this may be permanent.

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About Jeff Salter

Currently writing romantic comedy, screwball comedy, and romantic suspense. Fourteen completed novels and four completed novellas. Working with three royalty publishers: Clean Reads, Dingbat Publishing, & TouchPoint Press/Romance. "Cowboy Out of Time" -- Apr. 2019 /// "Double Down Trouble" -- June 2018 /// "Not Easy Being Android" -- Feb. 2018 /// "Size Matters" -- Oct. 2016 /// "The Duchess of Earl" -- Jul. 2016 /// "Stuck on Cloud Eight" -- Nov. 2015 /// "Pleased to Meet Me" (novella) -- Oct. 2015 /// "One Simple Favor" (novella) -- May 2015 /// "The Ghostess & MISTER Muir" -- Oct. 2014 /// "Scratching the Seven-Month Itch" -- Sept. 2014 /// "Hid Wounded Reb" -- Aug. 2014 /// "Don't Bet On It" (novella) -- April 2014 /// "Curing the Uncommon Man-Cold -- Dec. 2013 /// "Echo Taps" (novella) -- June 2013 /// "Called To Arms Again" -- (a tribute to the greatest generation) -- May 2013 /// "Rescued By That New Guy in Town" -- Oct. 2012 /// "The Overnighter's Secrets" -- May 2012 /// Co-authored two non-fiction books about librarianship (with a royalty publisher), a chapter in another book, and an article in a specialty encyclopedia. Plus several library-related articles and reviews. Also published some 120 poems, about 150 bylined newspaper articles, and some 100 bylined photos. Worked about 30 years in librarianship. Formerly newspaper editor and photo-journalist. Decorated veteran of U.S. Air Force (including a remote ‘tour’ of duty in the Arctic … at Thule AB in N.W. Greenland). Married; father of two; grandfather of six.
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25 Responses to Living Thru Covid19

  1. michaelrgrigsby says:

    I want to welcome everyone here, please feel free to ask any questions you may have. I will be checking in about every hour to answer any questions you may have.

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    • I am so sorry for your horrific experience. Despite all kinds of precautions, (even my family members staying away after being exposed),I got a ‘mild’ case that turned into a case of pneumonia, which was also mild, but Covid left me with heart damage. A cousin-in-law was intubated and placed in a medically-induced coma; she made a miraculous recovery.

      Mindless Covid Deniers are beyond ignorant; it’s ‘willful ignorance’, and is there anything worse?

      I wish you all the best from here.

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      • michaelrgrigsby says:

        Thank you, The big issue with COVID, there was nothing universal. It affects everyone differently. Some recover, others do not. Even some people who were advanced in age, with health issues, came through just fine, while other young people did not make it.

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  2. Anonymous says:

    Mike, I just want to say how honored I am to be your friend. I remember the day that Jennifer took you, we could not be near each other because she was recovering too. We sat in the hospital parking lot on the phone. Neither of us could have ever imagined what was about to unfold. I’m so very proud of the progress you’ve made and the resilience you’ve shown.

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  3. michaelrgrigsby says:

    Thank you so much for your kind words; it has been a journey, to say the least. I will say that you really learn who your true friends are when something like this happens. 🙂

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  4. Anonymous says:

    I remember the day vividly, sitting in separate cars in the parking lot waiting for some kind of communication from the hospital staff and watching helicopters land and take off again and again, transporting patients to UK. It’s a story of will power and faith. Jennifer’s role in this saga was (and continues to be) critical to your recovery. I’m so proud of both of you and thankful for the progress you continue to make.

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    • michaelrgrigsby says:

      Jennifer’s role in this was and continues to be a great influence and has been key to anything I have accomplished. Much of the good outcome is directly related to and a result of her actions, more so than my own, as I was unconscious for over 74 days and still have many black spots in my memory during the entire time.

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    • Jeff Salter says:

      It was excruciating, at times, to read of all that Jennifer went through — even as her isolated (& sometimes neglected) husband was suffering. In this account, Jennifer’s faith, strength, and courage definitely shines!

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  5. Patricia Kiyono says:

    I’m so sorry you had to live through this. I think if this had been a movie, the story would be deemed unbelievable.

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    • michaelrgrigsby says:

      Yes, I have to agree, when I tell people this story now, they are amazed that it actually happened. However I have extensive documentation that supports all my claims.

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  6. I’m a little surprised that you were able to get workers’ comp for Covid. Are you on permanent disability now? On Medicare? I guess I’m asking because I worked at a workers’ compensation firm for 18 years on the defense side. I hope you didn’t have to fight them. I worked with Medicare Set-Asides.

    I got Covid last summer and was in the hospital for 8 days, 7 nights. I was on oxygen. I gave it to my husband who has acute leukemia. His protocol was throw everything at him. He came out of the hospital feeling better after blood transfusions, antibiotics, and other interventions. It never went into his lungs. I didn’t have to have oxygen at home, but I was short of breath for a month and it took me another month to fully recover. I think I had some mental health issues that first month, too.

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    • I’m sorry that you had to go through this terrifying ordeal. I hope things start improving for you.

      Since my husband has acute leukemia now and a blood cancer (myelofibrosis) preceding that, we have been very careful trying to avoid Covid and other bugs. We likely caught it at the cancer center. It was scary. My husband had just gone through cataract surgery and I was putting drops in his eyes. I went to the hospital on a Thursday night and he was stuck doing it himself, and missing it by a mile (my sister, a nurse, stopped in to check on him). It was a relief in a way when he was admitted because the nurses put the drops in his eyes. Of course, it was frightening, too. And we were both in the hospital when our autistic daughter was at home with Covid (she’s 37). We all made it through. And we came out pretty well. Although now I know that I am high risk.

      I bought your book on Kindle.

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      • Jennifer Grigsby says:

        I’m sorry to hear you had a rough bout with the virus, but glad you recovered and both of you made it through. I will add that one of the treatments that helped Michael when he was at his worst in the ICU was a blood transfusion. I thought of that when I read that your husband received one when they were “throwing everything at him.” Michael ended up having 5 transfusions, but it seemed that he started slowly turning the corner after the first one. As to the worker’s comp, it was a long shot, but he was deemed an “essential employee” by the KY governor’s proclamation. Having a good attorney helped.

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        • The firm I worked at cases against employees who were essential, but undeclared “essential” – nursing home caregivers. I felt really bad for them. Facing so much death among their patients and then disabled themselves.

          My husband and I were fortunate to catch Covid after a lot more was known about how to treat it. And also, we received Remdesiver. And we had it in August when the hospitals were not so crowded.

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          • Jeff Salter says:

            Remdesiver is the same treatment I had (among other meds). I also had pneumonia.

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            • michaelrgrigsby says:

              I also had Remdesiver among countless others, with over 1800 pages of medical records from UK Chandler alone, I have extensive documentation of all the attempted treatments that were attempted and most where unsuccessful .

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          • michaelrgrigsby says:

            There was much debate over what actually was consider “essential” employees, it all came down to money and the involvement of such organizations such as the Kentucky Chamber of Commerce who should have never been involved in making medical decisions.

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    • Jeff Salter says:

      sorry, Cynthia, for what you had to go through during your own battle with CoVid. In my lifetime (soon to be 74 years), the CV pandemic is surely the worst set of circumstances/events that has appeared within the continental U.S. — and has affected me, my family, my friends, and so many others.

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    • Anonymous says:

      Yes my employer failed to follow precautions issued, and I was deamed an “essential worker” and had to be present at work, and my exposure was directly realted to my job, as ifthe organizaation had followed the Governor’s Executive Order, I most likely would have never been exposed. As my job could have been performed entirely remotely. Yes I did have to fight them, but I had a great atty and I won. However my case was new ground, they had no legal precendent and did not want to risk it in front of a jury.

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    • michaelrgrigsby says:

      I successfully won a substantial worker comp claim. My employer failed with safety precautions and the government executive order that was deemed by a job as essential. My entire job could have been performed remotely without the risk of exposure to anyone. They chose it was more important to have each one of us in the office than it was. to consider the risk to the employee. They did not want to risk my claim in front of a jury, as COVID cases were new with no legal prescendent being set. As such they were to unsure to risk the amount a jury would have awarded.

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  7. Jennifer Grigsby says:

    Thank you, Four Foxes, One Hound for hosting Michael. As his partner in everything, I am extremely proud of his accomplishments and determination to keep going. Everyone here has been so kind and asked great questions. Kindest regards to all.

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